OVERVIEW INTERPRETATION
Hi Jasmine,
There is a sense of lost heritage in this dream. The two women you knew in the dream were both in-laws, not people from your birth family. When you marry into another family you have two lines of heritage, your birth line and the new one. If you took on your husband’s surname when you married then you may even feel a conflict of heritage, bearing the name of your husband’s line and not your own.
You are at a very old homestead. I see the word ‘stead’ in ‘homestead’, sounding like ‘steady’, evoking a feeling of foundation and establishment. The home in the dream represents you and, possibly, your feelings about establishment and heritage.
Clothes in dreams often represent opinions and image, how we choose to show ourselves to the world. The very old clothes may refer to ‘very old’ opinions or attitudes within yourself (ones that you have worn for most of your life) or they may represent family values – attitudes that stretch way back, handed down from generation to generation. Your task is to remove these from the closet (to bring them out into the open) and iron them (iron them out, smooth them). Have you been reviewing family values, or your own attitudes recently?
You discover that someone has hidden beautiful and valuable antique linens and then you hide these again. It’s as if you have uncovered a secret and then hasten to hide it again. These valuable linens are part of you, something of great value that has been around for a long time, but which you have hidden in the past. You fear letting others see this wonderful treasure so you quickly hide it again. This hidden quality seems to be related to heritage.
You see the linens as being worth a lot of money and you stack them up. ‘Stack’ is a word we often use to describe money – stacks of money, a stack of notes, stacks of coins. It’s as if you are laying these linens aside as security for your future. What are you holding back, keeping to one side for the future? I get a feeling here that you do not feel entirely comfortable with your in-law heritage and that you are keeping a valuable part of yourself back. As you say, at the end of the dream, “started out with high hopes and excitement, then all was dashed .. and I was left with suspicion and anger”. Did your marriage start out with high hopes and have those hopes been dashed? If not, where else, in your life now, do you feel your high hopes have been dashed?
What inner treasure do you feel has been stolen from you? How far back did this stealing occur? Have you left a valuable part of yourself stuck in the past?
In the dream you trusted Peggy, suggesting you see something in Peggy that you identify with. What is it?
When you feel anger in a dream it is usually a good thing. This is most likely anger that you have held back in the past but that you are now releasing in the dream. Your task is to discover what emotion lies below the anger – what emotion and feeling the anger was really hiding. Now, doesn’t this begin to sound like the hidden linen story?
Dreams often use word play. Perhaps the linen is the valuable silver ‘lining’ treasure to be found hiding underneath the anger. You have taken your anger out of the closet to ‘iron out’ a few issues, and look what you discover! So, please don’t hide it again. Let that silver lining shine!
DREAM ALCHEMY PRACTICE
Artwork:
Buy some small pieces of linen – new or antique – and create a collage, patchwork quilt (very old homestead!), item of clothing or other artwork of your choice. Then display it, hang it, wear it – anything but hide it! You might want to title your artwork, “Shining my silver lining”.
Important:
Do your artwork dream alchemy practice alone. This is your contemplation time. Exploring your feelings as you do your artwork is an important part of the alchemy.
How does this work?
By working with dream elements and symbols in art form you are communicating with your unconscious mind in its own language to create change, to explore your feelings or to resolve past issues.
More details on Artwork as a Dream Alchemy Practice in: “Dream Alchemy”, by Jane Teresa Anderson, pages 333-4.
Jane Teresa Anderson
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