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Subject: strangers meeting

tingting

23:17 02/06/2002 

Last week on Tues 28 May:

My boyfriend's name is Alex and last Tuesday was our 6 month anniversary. On that day we weren't able to see each other but ironically enough I met 2 complete strangers who were called Alex. The first one I met was on the train, a red head Jewish Alex in the morning. The second one was a friend of my dad's who visited my actual house.

The plot thickens.....then on Sat 1 June, I met teh Jewish Alex again on a tram heading towards the Victoria Market.

Over the past few days I have been trying to interpret what it could all mean...or what it might be reflecting from my life...

some present theories - that my boyfriend Alex is always around me even if not in physical form and perhaps he is the 'one'. Or it could be that there are other Alex's and other people in the world for me..

Any ideas anybody?

Lena

07:30 04/06/2002 

Hi Tingting,

This has nothing to do with the plot but I thought I'd share something with you that I learned the other day. Alex is the Russian word for "snow".

I have a saying that "three times proves it", so I wonder what your three times Alex proves? Sorry, no ideas.

Lena

Tingting*

16:07 07/06/2002 

Thanks Lena!

talking about names, i found out the other day that my name Ting means 'live' in Indonesian as in 'where do you live?' I like to think of its meaning as living life - to live.

I wonder what my 3 times Alex proves as well...

WHAT IS
SYNCHRONICITY?

Jane Teresa's Explanation

Jane Teresa Anderson

WHAT IS SYNCHRONICITY?

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Synchronicity occurs when you experience a coincidence, or several coincidences, that seem so bizarre that you feel they must be meaningful in some way.

Some people believe that synchronicities are signs to follow, to lead you to where you are 'meant' to be. My understanding, however, is that not all synchronicities are to be followed, because ...

Synchronicities are SYMBOLS of where you're at, not signs to follow.

Synchronicities speak the same symbolic language as dreams.

When you experience a synchronicity, you are witnessing a change within yourself, an insight, a birth of something that has been unconscious bubbling up into consciousness.

At such times of change we see, all around us, symbols that reflect our shift in perception and self-understanding. This is synchronicity.

To understand this fully, and to see why it is not always appropriate to follow synchronicity, you can read my book, THE SHAPE OF THINGS TO COME. This way you can also discover how to read the synchronicities in your life and how to act on them in positive, life-enhancing ways.

Reality may never feel the same again!

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P.S.

In Jungian terms all synchronicities begin with a dream.

The dream comes first, then the symbol from the dream appears in waking life in ways that seem incredibly meaningful - though, classically, it is hard to understand, consciously, what that meaning is.

This is because the dream is painted by your unconscious mind in advance of your conscious mind 'catching up'. When the insight (unconscious shift) is big, synchronicities follow.

What happens is that your incredibly powerful unconscious mind (far more powerful than your conscious mind) manifests its insight physically into your waking life. (You have changed - the world, as you experience it, changes in accordance.)

It usually takes up to a couple of weeks before your conscious mind understands the symbolic dream manifesting in your waking life as synchronicity.

Being human, as we all are, we often forget the original dream but still experience the synchronicities.

There are many excellent reference sources on Jungian synchronicity.

My approach is largely Jungian, but slightly shifted.

Again, if you are seriously in-depth interested, I suggest you read my book "THE SHAPE OF THINGS TO COME" to understand where I am coming from.

Quite simply, synchronicity is a waking dream and interpreting it as such is immensely enriching.

Jane Teresa Anderson