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Subject: man in my dream

daisy

04:49 21/09/2000 

I was in my Church building walking down one of the hallways. As I turned one of the corners I saw a man, who at the time I didn't know, and something, a very powerful something, told me that he is the one I am going to marry.

I didn't think much of the dream since I didn't know who the man was.

Note:

I was in church a few months later and was walking down that hallway, and as I turned the corner, he was standing in the same spot as my dream. He had recently moved into the area but I had forgotten all about that dream until then.

Is it possible that the dream was some sort of revelation? I have never mentioned this to him, and can't because of his standing in the church. There have been several occasions where he has said or done something that makes me think he knows something too.

Dream edited for easier reading - JT, 2005

Belinda

22:18 21/09/2000 

Hi Daisy

Well, hon you look like you've had a precognitive dream alright. Only time will tell what will happen I suppose. All I can say is that I feel your dilemna.

Four to five years ago I had a dream about a marriage and I did meet the guy a couple of years later and the whole dream came true except the marriage part.

The dream showed me complex issues would be involved, and also lots of waiting, and all that happened. The dream also finished with me marrying him and us being really happy, but this did not happen. Technically we are apart. But, who knows what will happen in the future.

I really know the frustration you feel. I wish I had answers for you.

Jane, what do you think about these sort of dreams?

Belinda

shalie21

04:03 22/09/2000 

Well, if the marriage part does not happen, maybe that part of the dream was symbolic. Marriage usually means to me to join with or take into oneself. So perhaps you were supposed to learn something from this man and then keep the qualities that you learned with you. just a suggestion.

Jane Anderson

12:23 22/09/2000 

Hi Daisy, Belinda and Shalie21,

My precognitive dreams always have meaning on many levels, applying in symbolic terms to my personal life as well as in literal terms to the unfolding of future events in my life.

The results of my research suggest that this is so, and that this is also applicable to other people. (Research published in "The Shape of Things to Come".)

At the same time, no matter how destined the future can seem to be when these kind of dreams are experienced and then waking life follows accordingly, there is always room for change to some extent, if not totally, of the outcome.

Our dreams help us to know ourselves and our thinking (conscious and unconscious) more clearly. Our waking world reflects such thoughts ... it reflects ourself .. it IS ourself, symbolically.

So if some action is taken on such dreams, or if some shift occurs, so the waking life picture shifts too.

Of course, on many occasions, we are so close to the event that there seems little time to change the course of the apparently inevitable. I also believe this to be the case. When I have a series of precognitive events (i.e. leading up to the actual event, in whole or in part), the accuracy of the dream details is higher as the event approaches. It's as if the ink is almost set .. too late for a rewrite.

Experiencing precognitive dreams, for me, gives me a sense of total awe and empowerment, quite contrary to the feeling people might expect, a feeling perhaps of disempowerment and being unable to alter the future.

Precognition puts you in touch with your own astounding powers of manifestation and meaning.

So, Daisy, I would look at your dream symbolically as well as considering its precognitive content.

Also I'd say that as the time span was long (?? you suggest), the event may be significantly different if/when it occurs.

Church/ hallway ... symbols of spirituality and rebirth. (Hallways often appear in dreams as birth canals, suggesting transition from one place to another, just as hallways link us from one room to another, or from a room to a door, or a door to a room ...)

What does everyone else think on this?

Jane Anderson

Peta

22:31 22/09/2000 

Hi Everyone,

I've had precognitive dreams 2 years or longer before the event. My precognitive dreams are usually short and to the point, There are sometimes other events in the story line that give clues as to the timing.

I dreamt my sister would have a baby - no other details. At 37, and after having tried IVF several times unsuccessfully, she had lost hope of ever having a child. It is also interesting to note that around the same time my mother had a premonition that my sister would have a baby at 39. (It came to her one day when she was washing the dishes.) To everyone's surprise she had a little boy about 2 years later.

In the beginning, I think that having the knowledge of whats in store, doesn't necessarily make life any easier. It becomes a test of patience and faith. I'm still being tested on these - sometimes I don't do so well, but that's OK. It just means that I wait a little longer.

These days I have precognitive dreams about important or not so important event in my life and the lives of those around me. Whereas I told my sister about my dream of her child at the time, these days I rarely say anything - maybe only to my husband. In some cases, I wonder why I.m given the information.

Peta

shalie21

06:06 23/09/2000 

Hi,

I've had dreams where the events of the dream are very similar, but very different than a real life happening. These dreams usually happen about 6 years from the actual event.

One day I dreamed that I was living in my aunt's house and I was in my cousin's room. And in one corner of the room there was a hole. Then my cousin was jealous of me because I was in her room. There was more to the dream than that though. Anyway 6 years later I found myself living in my aunt's house and sharing a room with my cousin. She was a bit jealous of this for some reason. And Then we found a hole in the ceiling of the living room the storage room that connected off of my cousin's room had magazines in it that were too heavy.

Another dream had similar events to the shooting that took place in columbine highschool in Colorado. In the real events I guess the two boys were into world war 2 stuff and they decided to take over the school and shoot a bunch of people. And everyone was evacuated (as much as possible) into the parking lot. I had a dream 6 years earlier where the japonese were taking over a school and shooting people and everyone evacuated to the parking lot and were living there. In the dream before this dream, the Nazis were taking over.

It could be coincidents.

daisy

06:41 03/10/2000 

I guess the thing that really got to me about my dream is the fact that there was nothing else to the dream... That was it. I turned the corner, saw him and he looked at me and somehow this feeling came over my entire body and told me that this man is 'the one' It didn't say I would marry him or he would be my husband, although I know that is what it meant. It just said the one. But then nothing was said, it was just a feeling. And I didn't know this man when I had the dream. He came into my life later. I just remembered the dream when I saw him. He has been in another dream I had about getting married, and although it wasn't about who I was marrying, (that dream was symbolic of something else) he was the man I married. I have had a similar dream to this, but in the other one all I see are two small children, boys dressed in white and against a white background and I just know that they are my children. The only real difference with the dreams is the clothing and backgrounds. Other than that the feeling and spirit of them are the same... Does anyone have any more help or advice for me? Has anyone else experienced this?