It was very perceptive of you to pick up that I called the bird "he". I thought about this, and realized that I call any unknown animal he unless it's very obviously female (babies in tow, etc). I think it was a descriptor, rather than a sex assignment.
I probably led you astray with that last dream reply about my husband. What I didn't say was that the new acceptance of him was part of a larger epiphany.
I think the color was very important. I don't usually notice color in my dreams because everything is in color. This red happened to be very vivid.
I started to think about what I've "brought in" to my life lately that is very different than normal, more vivid. I had a "duh" moment. I told you that the bird was very pretty and a pet I never imagined having. Well, recently, I've decided to change my appearence. Even though I hated my bland looks all my life, I was concerned that others would think me vain if I changed.
Along with my recent acceptance of others, I decided to accept myself and change the things I didn't like, others' opinions didn't matter. I changed careers, I changed my looks.
I dyed my hair-you guessed it- bright red.
I think the fact that the bird was "someone else's pet" is significant in that I've recently made a new friend who encouraged me to let my "true colors" show.
So I think you were right when you said I was acknowledging and embracing something about myself.
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