Hi Rosalyn,
Quite a few people will relate to your dream, and they are all likely to be people who generally hold back from expressing their anger or frustration.
In dreams, emotions we try to hold back during the day often find expression, but they go way overboard. It's as if the emotions have been kept under pressure (which, really, they have) and then they just suddenly blow.
In such a dream, anger is violent and the dreamer gets to perform amazing feats - as you did with him.
In your dream this was all possible once you kicked off your heavy shoes. In dreams our shoes can symbolise our 'standing' or 'position' in life - they can be what holds us firmly to the ground or to our beliefs.
Your dream, with your heavy shoes, suggests you have been feeling 'weighed down' by keeping up your position/ appearance in the world. Staying grounded perhaps - resisting expressing your feelings.
(The idea, of course, is not to express violence, but to communicate about how you feel and, in communicating, find a way to soothe the anger and manage life in a more empowering and harmonious way.)
So, where is this anger coming from?
In your dream it was being blocked and unacknowledged that caused the anger. What situation, in your waking life, leaves you feeling blocked or unacknowledged? What is leaving you feeling dis-empowered (unable to kick high enough)?
Just some starting points for you to consider, Rosalyn.
It's great if you can reply here with your thoughts, then everyone who reads the forum gets to learn more about dream interpretation.
Jane Teresa Anderson |