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dream of England, can't return, no money, stranded (keywords)

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These dreams are selected from our Public Dream Forum (1998 - 2003). Jane Teresa's professional interpretations were added later.

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Subject: Returning to England and cant get back

Claire

16:14 11/06/2002 

I return to England, which is my country of birth. I have been in Australia for 6 years but people won’t let me return here. I also have no money and all my old friends won’t have anything to do with me. I can’t contact any one here and all my belongings are in my house in Australia. I feel stranded.

Dream edited for easier reading - JT, 2005

2004

Jane Teresa's View

Jane Teresa Anderson

Overview Interpretation & Dream Alchemy Practice suggestion


OVERVIEW INTERPRETATION

Hi Claire,

I’m a little confused about the details. I take it you return to England but that you are not permitted to come back to Australia, and that your English friends won’t acknowledge you and you can’t contact anyone in Australia. My interpretation is based on this understanding.

As you say, you feel stranded in the dream. When you are raised in one culture and then make your home in another you can end up feeling torn between the two. Instead of feeling one hundred percent at home in one culture, the other calls. With roots in both places you can end up feeling stranded between the two.

There must be times when your Australian friends do not understand some of your Englishness, for example, your sense of humour perhaps. And there will be times when your English friends do not understand the differences you have acquired due to living in the Australian culture. In dreams you return to your country of origin to look at the sources of your attitudes and beliefs, to understand them more clearly.

People in dreams represent your own feelings and beliefs, so your dream suggests you have an inner conflict about belonging. Your English friends are your old English beliefs, rejecting your Australian attitudes. Your lack of money in England probably symbolises your feelings of lack of value. You are caught between valuing your English and Australian values and end up feeling as if neither are strong enough to count. Your dreams suggest you feel something of value has been lost – perhaps your English nature.

The people who will not let you return to Australia represent your own beliefs that you do not deserve to belong in Australia. You are not giving yourself permission to belong even though, in the dream, all your belongings are in your Australian house. I wonder if you feel unable to give yourself full permission to be who you want to be, part English, part Australian, a wonderful blend of the two.


DREAM ALCHEMY PRACTICE

Take a piece of paper and draw a line down the middle. On one side list all the things you consider to be English about you, or things you like about English attitudes and values.

On the other side do the same for your Australian nature and the things you like about Australian attitudes and values.

Notice where there are contradictions and think about how you can balance and blend these into your own unique values.

Then take another piece of paper and draw a large circle. Inside the circle paint, draw or collage symbols or words representing the blending of your two cultures. Keep in mind a sense of belonging. The circle represents wholeness. It is a mandala. Display it in a prominent place to remind yourself of your unique place in the world, of where you belong and of the special values you contribute.

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ORIGINAL THREAD

Below is the original forum discussion on this dream, contributed before Jane Teresa's 2004 interpretation.

John

16:02 12/06/2002 

Hi Claire

There seems to me to be more than one possibility in this dream.

1) ...all my belonings .... are you feeling that you don't belong (somewhere)

2) Are you feeling "stuck" in the past - maybe a little homesick?

3) ... people that won't let me .... If characters in dreams are elemnts of ourselves, is there a part of you that won't let you move on? If so, what is its purpose for that?

Jane and Star both say that recurring dreams are trying to tell us something that we haven't understood yet. When you go to bed, try asking for the message to be put in another way that you can understand.

Hope that helps

Regards John

Oobe

21:49 14/06/2002 

Abandonment may be a feeling of loss or bewilderment because of giving away self-power to others; abandonment of own inner resources and strength through disregard. Need to work on loving, accepting yourself and taking responsibility for life direction.

The number 6 you indicate may indicate a message from your spiritual guidance.

The house is yourself, beliefs and attitudes cut off from your present circumstances.

The emotions you experience are important here, as they are stressful. What creative challenge can you set yourself in changing how you are "treated" in the "home" country?


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