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Chapter 4

Clearing the way


This chapter focuses on how you travel through your dreams and the situations you meet on your dream journeys. These dreams are metaphors for your waking life paths, from your everyday travelling through relationships and work situations to the grand scale negotiation of your spiritual path and all things in between.

The idea is to work out where there are obstacles (blocks) on your path, why they are there and how you can clear them.

You may discover tips for straightening out the tortuous bits of your life, or creative solutions for a smoother trip. You might see how to lighten your load, how to take on board something useful, how to adjust to a suitable speed, how to take control, how to release control or how to travel with a different attitude. You may even discover a road you had passed by unseen, a path previously dismissed, or a parallel way right in front of you, which is more nurturing than the dead end path you have been struggling with until now.

Remember, your dreams are working to solve problems or questions in your life, and, where they are still struggling to do this, you can move ahead of the dream by interpreting the symbols and working out a solution for yourself. So, for example, a journey dream might show a path blocked by a rock, and the dream may end there with no path-clearing solution, but you may wake up, interpret your dream, work out what the rock symbolises in your life, and then go about moving it from your path. Another way of doing this is to imagine being back in the dream and imagine the rock rolling away, freeing your path. This imagining, or visualisation, is an example of a process I have named Dream Alchemy, a process of working directly with the symbols of your dream to change the structure of your unconscious mind which, in turn, creates positive change in your life. (This is the focus of my paperback book, Dream Alchemy. Details at: www.dreamalchemybook.com )

Journey dreams are about freeing you up to make progress through life’s journey, so you can grow and unfold towards enlightenment. They deserve huge attention when it comes to dream interpretation.

Have a look at Jenny’s recurring journey dream theme:

 

Jenny’s recurring dream journey

Inevitably doomed

I have had a series of journey dreams, each involving a plane trip. Although the storyline changes (different people, different destinations and different lead-up situations) these dreams have one theme in common. I always know the plane has a 99% chance of crashing. I’m scared but somehow resigned to the fact. I know I have to get on the plane so I focus on a sense of destiny and doing what is required of me. Maybe, after all, it will be okay. There is that 1% survival chance. I usually get on the plane and feel the very heavy atmosphere. I usually wake up - or don’t recall any more - shortly after take off.

 

To interpret a dream fully you ideally need the whole storyline so that you can determine the situation, the problem or question, the action and the resolution. Not everyone has such detailed recall, however, and it is common for a dreamer to remember a recurring theme only. They may be able to tell you that the surrounding storyline changes from dream to dream, but they may not always be able to capture that storyline. That old ‘dream amnesia’ steps in, leaving only the memory of the recurring theme. This chapter is going to take you away from the comfort zone of interpreting by the storyline method to open and widen your dream interpretation abilities.

Sometimes the smooth path is not always the one which teaches the most.

You may interpret a difficult journey dream and decide to take a smoother path: to opt out of your current situation, for example. Sometimes this is the best solution. Sometimes the apparently easier path you choose quickly becomes a major obstacle course with an even steeper learning curve.

That old cliché, the journey is more important than the destination, is true. Paths become smoother through understanding and resolution. After resolution you may decide to walk the same path or you may decide to choose a new one more suited to the next stage of your journey.

So what’s the best approach for you during life’s tougher times? To change paths and learn your lessons in a different way? To change paths because the old ones are no longer valid? To smooth the path you’re already on? This is where your growing dream interpretation skills come in: to guide you through all of this and help you make the best decisions each step of your way.

 

STEP 1

Now that Jenny’s ‘Inevitably Doomed’ recurring theme has been on the back burner of your mind for a few minutes, re-read it again and write down any feelings you get about Jenny’s current waking-life path.

 

STEP 2

Now imagine that Jenny is sitting with you, asking you to help her to understand her dream. You already have a few ideas - maybe contradictory ones. To get to the bottom of the dream theme, you need to ask Jenny some questions. What would you ask? Write your questions down.

 

STEP 3

Now imagine you are Jenny and write down her/your answers to the questions. There are no right answers, of course, as Jenny is fictitious, although her dream is based on common recurring themes experienced by many people. Just feel free to be a Jenny of your choosing and see what she says.

 

STEP 4

Write down your interpretation based on the answers you imagined Jenny gave.

 

STEP 5

Let’s assume Jenny relates strongly to your interpretation, confirming your feelings about her dream. If Jenny now asks you for advice, what would you suggest, or what would you guide her to think about? Write your suggestions down.

 

One point of the exercise you have just done was to throw you into dream-interpreter role without the safety of a storyline, the presence of other people in the dream (the people method) or much of a dreamscape to go by. Now that you are half way through this book, you will probably find that your intuitive dream interpretation skills are kicking in. Dream interpretation is a language, and sooner or later the day comes where you effortlessly move from being the new student in a foreign world to feeling at home and fluent with a new language.

Except with dream interpretation the language is not new. I believe we each have the ability to understand the language of dreams (the language of the unconscious mind) because it IS our own natural language. Your dreams come from YOU. Your unconscious mind speaks YOUR dream language, often using YOUR personal symbols, but your conscious mind has been educated in ways which make it difficult for you to understand your unconscious mind. Learning the art of dream interpretation is simply a rebuilding of the bridge between your unconscious and conscious minds. Fluency in dream interpretation is acquired through re-connecting and remembering the innate language of your unconscious. ‘Just doing it’ and lots of practice builds the bridge. Meanwhile, deep ends are the way to go!

The second point of the Jenny exercise you have just completed was to highlight the question of choice. You probably arrived at a dilemma with Jenny’s dream along these lines:

  • Was Jenny’s dream simply telling her that her plans were inevitably doomed to failure? (In which case should she accept the failure outcome as her destiny - or work at abandoning the plans?)
  • Or, was Jenny’s dream giving her a deeper understanding of herself, revealing that her unconscious mind is programmed for a negative outcome, or a belief in lack of alternative options? (In which case she should work on thinking more positively about what she is trying to ‘get off the ground’ - or work at changing her belief in destiny and single options and start creating alternatives?)

By now your head may be spinning. How can you interpret a dream like this without a storyline to help out?

Here’s my understanding, which may steady your vision and increase your confidence:

Our dreams show our conscious and unconscious beliefs and, generally, the conflicts or resolutions between the two – where they clash and where they agree. The object of dream interpretation is, ultimately, enlightenment through bringing all that is unconscious into consciousness to create harmony through integration.

Jenny’s current plan may indeed be doomed to failure, but only as long as her unconscious mind holds this negative belief. (By the way, her conscious mind may hold a much more positive belief, but the unconscious mind is FAR stronger, and always wins. That’s why the unconscious beliefs need to be changed, and this can only be done either by the conscious mind understanding the unconscious one through dream interpretation, or by using Dream Alchemy processes and practices.)

Jenny’s life may indeed be narrowed to one inevitable destiny, but that destiny is only inevitable as long as her unconscious mind refuses to believe in other options. Jenny’s waking life IS a reflection of her conscious and unconscious minds and the degree of conflict or resolution between them. Her task is to choose whether to release the old unconscious programming revealed through her dream interpretation in favour of a more positive resolution in her waking life.

So all combinations of the above interpretations for Jenny’s dream could be ‘right’ at any moment, and all the mentioned advice for action could be suitable at any moment. It all depends on Jenny, and on what she’s prepared to understand and change about herself and her life.

 

Common recurring journey dream themes

Practising your skills on common journey themes will help sharpen your ability to tackle your individual, perhaps more complex, journey dreams. Apply everything you have learned so far and just follow the steps:

 

STEP 6

For each dream theme that follows, write a couple of sentences to summarise your feelings for what each dreamer is going through. (My suggestions are included just before Step 7.)

 

Marianna’s recurring dream journey

Flooded road

I get so far along the road but then it is flooded and I can’t get through.

 

Karl’s recurring dream journey

One way street

I am driving along happily until I realise all the car horns are being tooted at me because I am going fast down a one way street. I don’t seem to be able to stop.

 

Jonathan’s recurring dream journey

Missing the turns

I’m driving through a strange city, enjoying going fast. I know I’ve got to turn right, but every time I see the turning I’m going too fast and I miss it. I think I’ll turn at the next one but I miss that too.

 

Rosie’s recurring dream journey

Dead bodies

I am travelling along with a feeling of dread because I know this road leads to a place where some dead bodies have been buried. I know I’ve got something to do with them and I’m worried about being found out.

 

Brett’s recurring dream journey

No escape

Some maniacs are chasing me in their tank and forcing me to drive faster and madly. The faster I go, the more they catch up with me. Is there no escape?

 

Arthur’s recurring dream journey

The wrong station

I want to catch a train but whatever I try I always end up at the wrong station. If I see the train, it doesn’t stop, or I just miss it.

 

Sue’s recurring dream journey

Deaf driver

It’s quite a pleasant car trip, but the driver doesn’t hear me when I want him to take a turning. We end up going where he wants to go all the time.

 

Patrick’s recurring dream journey

Running fast, getting nowhere

I’m running away from someone - or am I running to get somewhere? I don’t know, but I do know that it gets harder and harder to run until I’m trying with all my effort but I’m running on the spot and getting nowhere.

 

Bel’s recurring dream journey

Lost in the city

I’m in a strange city and I seem to know my destination, but I can’t find my way.

 

Fay’s recurring dream journey

Taking the high road

I’m walking or driving in this dream and I seem okay about where I’m going until I see, out of the corner of my eye, a road higher up. I want to be on it. Sometimes I can’t find a way onto it and other times I do get on it and feel pleased with myself.

 

Nick’s recurring dream journey

Leaving the main road

I start by driving on a highway or main road and then I’m running easily, instead of driving, on the grass at the edge of the road. Then I’m walking further away from the main road and finally I’m ambling through fields of wild flowers, beating a track as I go.

 

Penny’s recurring dream journey

Look! No brakes!

Everything’s fine in this recurring dream until I need to brake and I find the brakes are broken. The car starts to go out of control.

 

Andrew’s recurring dream journey

Circling

I’m sailing on a small yacht but no matter how hard I try we don’t seem to get anywhere: we just keep circling in one place.

 

Marty’s recurring dream journey

Slipping backwards

I’m in a bus which is climbing a hill which becomes so steep that the bus starts slipping backwards.

 

Kay’s recurring dream journey

Me and my bicycle

I don’t ride a bike in life, but in my dreams this is how I usually get around. The cycling’s easy and nice and slow. I like the feeling of balance as I make decisions about which roads to take.

 

Barbara’s recurring dream journey

Missing the boat

I join a long queue to buy a ticket for a boat trip. Just as I get to the front it leaves without me.

 

Simon’s recurring dream journey

Revisiting the past

I’m surprised to find myself yet again walking down the street that leads to my childhood home. I get close to it, and sometimes I go into old neighbours’ houses, but I never seem to get inside our old home.

 

Lyn’s recurring dream journey

Looking for a toilet

I leave my husband sitting in the restaurant waiting to be served while I go to find a toilet. I’m away forever because whenever I see the ‘Ladies’ sign I walk a long way only to find it locked or occupied. I just keep on searching for the toilet that isn’t locked, occupied, blocked, door-less, or broken.

 

Vera’s recurring dream journey

Come on up!

I’m flying, by myself, hovering above a circle of people encouraging them to come on up and fly with me. They don't seem able to do it.

 

Jim’s recurring dream journey

Like a bird

I’m flying so high that I can look down on the world and see forever. It feels wonderful and I question why I can’t travel like this all the time. It all seems so easy up here: like a bird.

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Jane Teresa’s feelings for each dreamer:

Marianna: Flooded road

Emotional issues are flooding Marianna’s way ahead, blocking her progress. She feels she can’t get through these issues.

Karl: One way street

Karl’s unconscious mind is warning him that he’s going the wrong way about something and is in danger of not being able to stop and correct his situation. He has been consciously oblivious to the fact.

Jonathan: Missing the turns

Jonathan is approaching something new (society, modern world?) too fast. He needs to slow down if he is going to anticipate and judge the right moves. The turnings may indicate he has some changing to do (turn: change), or a different direction to take in his approach to this new area. He is missing opportunities.

Rosie: Dead bodies

Rosie’s on a road to discovering something she’s ‘killed off’ within herself. This is generally a good thing - acknowledging past mistakes or parts of the self which have been cut off and may need to be brought back to life. However unconsciously she fears the repercussions of having to come to terms with this knowledge, or fears having to ‘own up’ to her past and make appropriate changes. The dream is preparing her for what is coming up.

Brett: No escape

You can never escape from yourself. The more you run away from something about yourself and your life that you need to face, the worse the situation gets. There is an aspect of Brett which is defensive (tank?) and maniacal - and he’s not willing to face it.

Arthur: The wrong station

Arthur needs to look at the rest of his dream to find out why he is hesitating over his training desires. His unconscious seems to be very good at making ‘mistakes’ to prevent him from fulfilling his wants. Is he a self-saboteur or should he change his goals?

Sue: Deaf driver

Why isn’t Sue in the driving seat? Which aspect of her self is in control of her drive/motivation/direction in life? ‘He’ is a male aspect of herself (?inner male? duties of the outer world?) - or he represents the personality of someone she knows, and therefore that aspect of her self. The female aspect (?inner world?) is not being heard and is settling for ‘pleasant’ instead of fulfilment.

Patrick: Running fast, getting nowhere

Patrick may be running away from an issue that needs to be faced, or he may be trying too hard. Sometimes the secret is to relax and let things happen rather than to push too hard. Whatever is happening for Patrick, his efforts are getting him nowhere, so there has to be a better way. One possibility is that his unconscious hesitations are slowing him down.

Bel: Lost in the city

Bel knows where she wants to be in some aspect of her life (probably related to society, the modern world), but can’t work out how to get there. The details of her dream will show why.

Fay: Taking the high road

Fay has been happy with her lot but her unconscious mind shows she is ready to take a higher path - a higher view - perhaps a more spiritual or mental perspective (certainly a different perspective as seen from the corner of her eye). She wants to connect with a higher purpose. When she does, she feels pleased with herself. She is in transition.

Nick: Leaving the main road

Nick has been travelling mainstream (main road) for long enough. He is going through a process of getting more and more in touch with his natural self, slowing down into the rhythm of nature and carving an individual path.

Penny: Look! No brakes!

Penny doesn’t know how to stop. She needs a break (need to brake) but one aspect of her life’s journey is getting too far out of control and finding that break is difficult because she is out of control.

Andrew: Circling

Andrew is trying to get somewhere with an emotional issue, but no matter how hard he feels he’s trying he keeps going round in circles. He is stuck in a recurring emotional theme.

Marty: Slipping backwards

Marty is probably in a group situation which he feels is difficult. He is slipping backwards. He’s not in the driver’s seat and he’s uncomfortably out of control as part of the group.

Kay: Me and my bicycle

Kay makes her own way around: easy and slowly and in balance. She makes good decisions because of this. She’s probably a one-woman show: her own business perhaps? (Bikes often indicate solo paths, as they require solo drivers.)

Barbara: Missing the boat

Barbara is waiting to deal with an emotional issue or to fulfil an emotional desire. She feels she is not yet worthy of the right to have this experience. She may feel she always ‘misses the boat’. The dream may reveal her unconscious hesitations: her holding back from what is rightfully hers.

Simon: Revisiting the past

Simon is close to discovering something about his childhood or to retrieving an aspect of himself that he left behind in childhood. Either way, his unconscious mind is at work to reveal what he needs to know in order to be able to understand his present situation and move forward. It may be that he feels excluded from something connected with family life, as he feels unable to ‘get inside home’.

Lyn: Looking for a toilet

Lyn is searching for some privacy and space to process and rid herself of old, unwanted emotions (urine: unwanted water), or old unwanted garbage (all that old crap). She is encountering many hesitations including her own blocks and the way that her attitudes have locked herself out of the space she needs to let go and cleanse herself. 

Vera: Come on up!

Vera is discovering her innate abilities to ‘rise above’ her situation, or to ‘rise to a higher potential’. She is encouraging herself further in the dream but she is also meeting parts of herself which are resistant to moving on and up. 

Jim: Like a bird

Jim’s dream is taking him to a higher level so that he is able to see his past and his future: to see the pattern of his life’s journey from a distance, more objectively. A bird often symbolises the part of oneself that can fly high and see it all: the soul. He is taking a spiritual overview of his life’s path.

 

STEP 7

For each of the above journey themes that seem stuck or unsatisfactory in some way, how could you change the ending OF THE DREAM to make the journey easier? (There are no right answers. My suggestions follow, but write yours before looking!)

 

Jane Teresa’s better dream endings:

Marianna: Flooded road

It’s important to get there so I decide to swim across and continue my journey.

Karl: One way street

I focus and see a grassy verge lined with bushes at the side of the street so I drive into them and manage to slow down enough to get control of the car again. I pull over onto a wider grassy patch and stop to think about where I want to go and why.

Jonathan: Missing the turns

I realise the left turnings are clearer to see and require less manoeuvring giving me more time to slow down and take the next turning. I then turn around and drive across the road to turn right and go back to where I need to be. I slow down but of course I’m now looking for a left turn so everything is easier.

Rosie: Dead bodies

I pick up the mobile phone and call a supportive friend and tell her about my worries. She agrees to meet me at the burial place and to help me work out a plan.

Brett: No escape

I realise I can’t drive this fast for much longer without crashing or running out of fuel so I pull over expecting the maniacs to stop too. My time is up and I’m tired. Although I’m scared I summon up a feeling of courage as they stop and approach me. Their leader says, "Thank goodness you’ve stopped. We needed to warn you about the defence lines ahead". The threat had disappeared and I was saved from getting tangled up in defence games further along the road.

Arthur: The wrong station

As the train leaves I read the destination plates and realise it was the wrong train anyway. It’s not going where I want to go. I want the sea, not the city. Had I been chasing a city train all this time? I go to the station desk and describe where I want to be. The clerk says, "Change to platform one. Your train is waiting for you". I get on board.

Sue: Deaf driver

We pull over for a cup of tea and I tell him that I will be driving for the rest of the journey. I am surprised when he says nothing. I enjoyed feeling my own power and making adventurous choices for myself from the driver’s seat. 

Patrick: Running fast, getting nowhere

So I stop. An old girlfriend drives up and asks if I’d like a lift. I accept! I’m glad I didn’t miss that offer!

Bel: Lost in the city

I see a school so I walk in and ask the office staff for directions. They give me a map and a timetable. I look down the road and see my destination quite clearly. I’ve no doubt that I can get there now.

Fay: Taking the high road

I decide that next time I find the way onto the higher path I will leave a marker or a sign so that I can find it again easily. 

Nick: Leaving the main road

I’m happy walking through the fields so I don’t want to change the ending of this dream.

Penny: Look! No brakes!

Even though the car is out of control I pick up my mobile phone and call a helicopter rescue service. The helicopter arrives immediately and extends a mechanical arm which picks up the car with me inside it and places us on a quieter road. I ask the rescue service man to help me mend the brake and he tells me there is nothing wrong with it. Apparently I wasn’t using it enough and so it wasn’t responding. Now it is all fixed and everything will be fine as long as I control my driving speed and use my brake more often. 

Andrew: Circling

I stop trying in the same old way and decide to do nothing but wait for a change of breeze to billow the sail. When it comes, in its own time, I’m energised and ready to make full use of the change, going off in a different direction to my original destination, but free of going round in the same old circle and getting nowhere.

Marty: Slipping backwards

I jump out of the bus and continue the journey on foot.

Kay: Me and my bicycle

I wouldn’t want to change the end of my dream.

Barbara: Missing the boat

I look in my handbag and find I had a ticket all the time! Then I see a second boat pulling in. They must have put on a second boat because so many people wanted to make the trip. So there was room for me after all.

Simon: Revisiting the past

I ask one of the neighbours if they have a key to my old home. They do and they let me inside.

Lyn: Looking for a toilet

I return to the restaurant and ask the waiter for the key to the restaurant restroom. Why had I been looking for the public toilets when were in a restaurant? He brings the key and for some reason he asks me to lock the door behind me while I use the facilities. I take my time inside and when I return to the table the waiter is pouring our first glass of wine.

Vera: Come on up!

So I fly higher on my own. Why let their lack of faith hold me back?

Jim: Like a bird

I wouldn’t want to change the ending of this dream.

 

STEP 8

Looking at the changes you made to the dream endings for better dream outcomes, what advice would you give each dreamer to help improve the outcome of their waking life journey? (There are no right answers. My suggestions follow, but write yours before looking!)

Jane Teresa’s suggested advice:

Marianna: Flooded road

Identify the emotional issue which is blocking your path and unblock it by facing the issue to understand why it has been holding you back. By working through it you will clear your path.

Karl: One way street

Focus on the natural world to regain a sense of control over the pace and direction of your life. Then take time to re-assess where you want to go and why.

Jonathan: Missing the turns

(Left often symbolises the inner world, and right the outer world, as in Yin and Yang, the inner world female and the outer world male.) You are moving too fast to see and manoeuvre your outer world direction. It’s much easier to see your outer world and the best way to handle it by firstly ‘turning’ within to your spiritual, creative, intuitional and nurturing self. From this position you will be able to make a ‘turnaround’ in your outer world and merge your outer and inner world desires (right turn is a left turn when you’ve made a turnaround in life.)

Rosie: Dead bodies

Do you need to resurrect something back into your life or to acknowledge something you’ve forgotten about or ‘killed off’? It’s time to face some past truths so why not communicate your concerns to someone or journal them to go over the issues in your own mind? It’s time to work out what it is that you’ve buried, and how you feel about this now. It’s time to let it all come to the surface for consideration.

Brett: No escape

Are you being defensive about something and not realising it? A defensive attitude could be draining your energy and leading to burnout or some other form of ‘crash’. It’s time to be courageous and face issues which make you feel defensive. Facing the issue will dissipate the need for defensiveness and re-energise you.

Arthur: The wrong station

It’s time to reassess your training goals. Perhaps you need to change from studying society/modern world (city?) to studying the unconscious/emotions (sea?). Perhaps you should make an appointment with the student enrolment office (desk clerk?) and describe where you want to be at the end of your studies. It sounds as if you already know what changes you want to make: it’s just up to you to say ‘yes’.

Sue: Deaf driver

Take control of your life again. Just do it: the only thing stopping you is your own ‘deafness’ to your desires and needs. 

Patrick: Running fast, getting nowhere

Stop doing whatever it is you are doing which you feel is getting you nowhere. By stopping for a while you might be more likely to notice opportunities that you are currently missing. It looks as if it might be time to tune into your female side (creativity, intuition, emotions, spiritual self etc) to get ahead. 

Bel: Lost in the city

Identify the situation in your life where you feel you know where you want to be but can’t work out how to get there. Then ask for help (information?) or apply yourself to learn (school) new planning skills. The idea is to ask about or learn how to draw up your own step-by-step ‘map’ to get to where you want to be and then to follow it.

Fay: Taking the high road

Next time you realise you’re looking at your life from a higher level take note of your attitudes and how you achieved this higher state of perception. Practise these attitudes and ways of looking at life until they become easier. 

Nick: Leaving the main road

Your dream is confirming that the individual path, in touch with your natural self and the natural world, feels right for you just now. Stay on that track! 

Penny: Look! No brakes!

You’re not so far out of control that you can’t get the message across (to someone else or to yourself) that you need to get out of your present situation and take a quieter approach to life for a while. This is an emergency rescue situation, so treat it as such. It’s high priority. The message is that you need to take time off/relax (use your ‘break’) more often because you are losing touch with how to unwind ("brake not responding"). After some time out you can continue on your path but keep a steady pace and take frequent breaks.

Andrew: Circling

The old approaches are not working so have a look at how you usually respond in this situation and stop the old pattern. Do nothing about the situation but watch for a change to occur naturally. (For example, if this is a relationship issue, instead of reacting in your usual way, do nothing. After a while your partner will change her previously automatic response because she is not being fed by yours.) The change (for example, your partner’s changed response) would seem to be the cue for you to ‘change tack’: to change your approach to the issue and therefore change your destination.

Marty: Slipping backwards

Get out of the group situation and go about the (same?) journey in your own way.

Kay: Me and my bicycle

As long as you maintain the dream feeling by going about your life steadily enough to make good balanced decisions, you’re on track!

Barbara: Missing the boat

Know that you are worthy, Barbara. You have as much right to emotional fulfilment or to having your equal say in an emotional matter as anyone else. So stop hesitating and speak out for what you want.

Simon: Revisiting the past

Keep asking your dreams for the ‘key’ to understanding how your past is affecting your present situation, as your dreams seem to be getting there. Imagine asking one of your old neighbours to enlighten you. You might be surprised at how helpful their/your answers are. If an old neighbour is still alive you could get in contact with them and ask some questions. Or you may simply need to ‘let yourself in’: to allow yourself to be more included in family situations, or allow yourself to feel more ‘at home’ with your true self, to ‘let go’.

Lyn: Looking for a toilet

Stop putting yourself in second place to others and start putting yourself equal-first. Allow yourself the same privileges, facilities and luxuries that others have. Stop hesitating and serving others and start serving yourself as well. Remember it’s the waiter (person who waits and serves) who has the key and who basically gives you permission to serve yourself and take as much time as you wish. Take time to yourself to let go of accumulated old issues and you’ll start to notice some changed perceptions around you (just as wine changes perceptions when you drink it!)

Vera: Come on up!

Exactly. Fly high, keep faith in yourself and don’t let any little voices (yours or others) hold you back.

Jim: Like a bird

Your dream confirms the clarity of vision you achieve when you look at your life from a distance or from a spiritual point of view. Put yourself in this position whenever you are in need of a clear overview.

 

Although the dreams you have just worked on were very short and simple, they were designed to give you maximum insight into how to interpret journey dreams and how to take practical action according to your discoveries.

Expand the simple techniques you have just practised and apply them to your own more complex journey dreams. Feel free to bring back all the other dream interpretation skills you have learned so far (the storyline method, interpreting other people in your dreams, interpreting the dreamscapes) and add them to your new knowledge of dream journeys as metaphors for how you are travelling your waking life paths.

 

STEP 9

Step 18 at the end of the last chapter suggested that you choose a journey dream of your own to work on in this chapter. So go ahead now and apply what you have learned. If your dream is stuck or unsatisfactory in some way, remember to ask yourself how you could change the dream for a better outcome, and then translate your new ending into waking life action. Over to you! 

In Chapter 5 you will discover how to interpret bizarre symbols in your dreams, how to deal with insights about yourself that make you feel uncomfortable, and how to let go of the past and choose a better future for yourself.

 

STEP 10

To prepare for Chapter 5 choose a dream which features a really bizarre object or symbol and write it out in readiness.

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